I have created this blog as a place to process my journey- as I grieve the loss of our son Benji. You only need to join me if you choose to.☺ Writing is therapeutic for me and though my way of grieving may be completely different from someone else, perhaps my journey will give you a glimpse into what it means to grieve the loss of a child.

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Tuesday, March 12, 2013

(Pt. 3) Watching my child's life slipping away before my very eyes...



"In Christ Alone"
Tuesday, March 12, 2013 3:14 PM CDT 

As we can see by the hundreds of FB posts, most of you are already aware that this morning at 7:30, Benji lost his long fight with cystic fibrosis and peacefully went to be with Jesus. His soul made the transition from his scarred, bruised and battered earthly body to his perfectly healthy, heavenly body surrounded by Allen, myself, Aaron, Tyler and Cory; along with his grandparents and a number of aunts, uncles and cousins. A few weeks ago, I discovered Benji’s laptop password is “inChrist”. This “password” is also what reserved a place for him in heaven! :) He was so loved and his absence is already creating a HUGE hole!

Through the help of the family that drove down last night, we had the apartment packed and ready to leave by 2:00 this afternoon; and are currently on our way home. Your outpouring of support, encouragement and prayers is overwhelming! I hope to be able to respond more specifically at some point.

Just want to give a heads up to those interested in attending any of the viewings or funeral. We are planning to have the viewing Friday evening and Saturday afternoon and evening, at Siloam Fellowship; and the funeral on Sunday afternoon at Clinton Frame Mennonite Church. As we can, we will post more details.

THANK YOU again for your AMAZING support through this time!


In Christ alone my hope is found
He is my light, my strength, my song
This Cornerstone, this solid ground
Firm through the fiercest drought and storm

What heights of love, what depths of peace
When fears are stilled, when strivings cease
My Comforter, my All in All
Here in the love of Christ I stand

In Christ alone, who took on flesh
Fullness of God in helpless Babe
This gift of love and righteousness
Scorned by the ones He came to save

'Til on that cross as Jesus died
The wrath of God was satisfied
For every sin on Him was laid
Here in the death of Christ I live, I live

There in the ground His body lay
Light of the world by darkness slain
Then bursting forth in glorious Day
Up from the grave He rose again

And as He stands in victory
Sin's curse has lost its grip on me
For I am His and He is mine
Bought with the precious blood of Christ

No guilt in life, no fear in death
This is the power of Christ in me
From a life's first cry to final breath
Jesus commands my destiny

No power of hell, no scheme of man
Could ever pluck me from His hand
'Til He returns or calls me home
Here in the power of Christ I stand

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